I often check this..
The old method was with http://wholinkstome.com/, but that got kind of dodgy.
The new method is with Technorati, like so http://www.technorati.com/search/www.shaolintiger.com
The other method is to check incoming links across the 3 big engines.
Another one I found recently is devoted to egosurfing.
You can check it out at http://w3.egosurf.org/
I got 7876.
You can also check out your Alexa ranking if you dare.
Your feed distribution on Pubsub:
And of course, how many RSS subscribers you have 🙂